Need help attracting an AMAZING relationship with the right person without having to be someone you are not? You've come to the right place!
I believe that ANYONE can be successful at flirting and dating. I get emails from participants who have taken my workshops and found that they feel more confident afterward. They more easily attract people to them and are beginning to enjoy dating! They've taken what they've learned and found great people and are growing meaningful relationships.
This newsletter is going to reveal some of the secrets I've learned about how to FLIRT EFFECTIVELY AND NATURALLY and improve not only the number of dates you have ahead of you...but also the quality, strength, and the depth of the connections; being yourself and leading with your heart in order to create a long-lasting relationship.
THE 3 MYTHS OF FLIRTING
1. Follow the rules in a book and you will succeed.
Truth: How can you follow someone else's rules and expect to succeed. Yes, smiling is important (that's a good rule to follow) but take not about how you feel when someone tells you what to do. Most of us react to that negatively. And trying to be someone else will never get you into a relationship that is lasting. After pretending for a while...the show will be over before it has actually begun.
What to do: Make a list of all the positive ways you interact with others; it doesn't matter if the list is long or short but try to put at least 3 things down on paper. Practice these top 3 ways that are authentically YOU. Know that you are good at these, that you are capable and that when you are yourself, people will enjoy you for who YOU are! Don't you want to be with someone who is attracted to who you are?
2. If you obsess over getting married and having babies, you will!
Truth: Gong! When you meet someone if it's laden with projections into the future, s/he will feel the pressure. This is the best way to shorten the length of even the first date!
What to do: Relax! Enjoy yourself. Stay open to the connection and the unique gifts it has to offer you. From there, who knows what will happen!
3. Flirting = sex.
Truth: Nope! Flirting is communicating interest in getting to know someone better. End of sentence.
What to do: Flirt with confidence that you are in control of your 'yes' -- and 'no' -- regarding how far to take the meeting or date.
Flirtatiously Yours,
Robyn
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