Gratitude With Heart

Greetings on Thanksgiving Day!

I woke up this morning and in my meditation felt an incredible gratitude for all the connections I have in my life right now. I felt especially grateful for being able to connect to a higher place in my meditation. Then I realized that writing to you today was important. To remind you that if you are not with that someone special - life partner or soul mate - right now....that it's important to be grateful for what you DO have in your life (and who.)

Like attracts like....so when you feel gratitude for the love you have in your life today, love will come your way more easily.

So…

Remember to LOVE YOURSELF and that it’s OK not to be sharing this day with your life partner. Be grateful and thankful for all that IS in your life even if you're not feeling it. "Fake it til you make it" - practice expressing gratitude and guess what? Soon, you'll actually feel it!

If you continuing doing the things you LOVE to do in your life, with people that make you feel GOOD when you're around them, you'll create a beautiful, loving life on your own that will welcome in a life partner when s/he shows up!

Remember that staying connected with your heart is most important. It allows others to truly see you and know who you are; and know that their attraction is true (based on an authentic you and not someone who you are 'not'.)

I am sending you MUCH LOVE and LIGHT today! I look forward to hearing from you, seeing you, playing and learning and loving together!

LOVE YOURSELF!!! BE GRATEFUL FOR YOU! YOU ARE AN AMAZING, UNIQUE, BEAUTIFUL PERSON -- LET OTHERS SEE JUST HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE!

If you have a success story, please post it on the Bulletin Board so that we can ALL share in your SUCCESS and LOVE!

Warmly,
Robyn

The 3 Myths of Flirting

Need help attracting an AMAZING relationship with the right person without having to be someone you are not? You've come to the right place!

I believe that ANYONE can be successful at flirting and dating. I get emails from participants who have taken my workshops and found that they feel more confident afterward. They more easily attract people to them and are beginning to enjoy dating! They've taken what they've learned and found great people and are growing meaningful relationships.

This newsletter is going to reveal some of the secrets I've learned about how to FLIRT EFFECTIVELY AND NATURALLY and improve not only the number of dates you have ahead of you...but also the quality, strength, and the depth of the connections; being yourself and leading with your heart in order to create a long-lasting relationship.

THE 3 MYTHS OF FLIRTING

1. Follow the rules in a book and you will succeed.

Truth: How can you follow someone else's rules and expect to succeed. Yes, smiling is important (that's a good rule to follow) but take not about how you feel when someone tells you what to do. Most of us react to that negatively. And trying to be someone else will never get you into a relationship that is lasting. After pretending for a while...the show will be over before it has actually begun.

What to do: Make a list of all the positive ways you interact with others; it doesn't matter if the list is long or short but try to put at least 3 things down on paper. Practice these top 3 ways that are authentically YOU. Know that you are good at these, that you are capable and that when you are yourself, people will enjoy you for who YOU are! Don't you want to be with someone who is attracted to who you are?

2. If you obsess over getting married and having babies, you will!

Truth: Gong! When you meet someone if it's laden with projections into the future, s/he will feel the pressure. This is the best way to shorten the length of even the first date!

What to do: Relax! Enjoy yourself. Stay open to the connection and the unique gifts it has to offer you. From there, who knows what will happen!

3. Flirting = sex.

Truth: Nope! Flirting is communicating interest in getting to know someone better. End of sentence.

What to do: Flirt with confidence that you are in control of your 'yes' -- and 'no' -- regarding how far to take the meeting or date.

Thanks and I look forward to hearing YOUR SUCCESS stories, too!

Flirtatiously Yours,
Robyn