Monday, December 21, 2009

Attention Single Women!!!!

Imagine for a moment that it's six months from today, and you've met the most wonderful man in the whole world. You have finally met your match, your life partner, your soul mate. When your eyes meet there's a "yes!" that tells you this is the one you've been waiting for. You feel a deep connection, a strong attraction, and are ready to open your heart.

Is this what you want to create in your life? Is this what you have been waiting for?

If so, you've come to the right place!

This experiential workshop, offered by four leading experts in the fields of relationship and dating, will send you home with the power tools you need to manifest the relationship of your dreams.

This is an event you do not want to miss! Join other women, like you, who intend to have the best year of their lives in 2010.

Ring in your New Year on Saturday, January 9th, from 1-5 pm in N. Andover, MA

The afternoon is made up of FOUR different sessions:

Session One: How To Write The Perfect Profile

New Year's 2010 Resolution: I will join (or renew my membership on) an online dating service.

That's the easy part. The hard part happens after joining, when you sit down to write your profile. Profile writing is an art, and Dale Koppel, PhD, author of THE INTELLIGENT WOMAN'S GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING: And She Lived Happily Ever After (www.theintelligentwomansguide.com), will show you how to create a well-conceived and well-written profile - and how to feel confident in the process.

She'll describe the dos and don'ts, and the top ten mistakes people make. Intriguing, inspiring, and often a tad shocking.

Dr. Koppel speaks from experience. Just three months shy of the big Six-O, Dale Koppel, PhD found herself suddenly single. Her seemingly perfect marriage of 25 years was over. Her husband had left her for a man. Twelve days later, she joined an online dating service. "Life's too short," she told her girlfriends, who thought she was moving too fast. "Why wait?" She was right. As she made her way through thousands of profiles and met hundreds - yes, hundreds - of men, she learned how to make the most of online dating, achieve her goals, and come out on top. She developed skills and created strategies that really work - for women of all ages.

Dale Koppel, PhD holds degrees in education, psychology, and journalism. Her travel, human interest, lifestyle, home and design, food, and business stories have appeared in newspapers and magazines throughout the country, including Redbook, Boston Magazine, The Boston Globe, The Los Angeles Times, The Miami Herald, and The Chicago Tribune. She was a weekly columnist for the Fort Lauderdale Sun-Sentinel. She wrote Women Are The Superior Sex and Why Women Worry for Globe Communications. She has been a ghostwriter and co-authored Brainstorming with Lynn Serper, Ed.D. She writes a bi-weekly column on online dating for the Lynn Daily Item and teaches online dating workshops throughout Massachusetts. She lives on the North Shore with the man she met online.

Session Two: How to Have Successful Relationships with Men

You do all the right stuff: online dating; being fixed up by friends; going to places where you're likely to meet men; go out on dates when you're asked; read all the books. So why aren't you in a relationship with a great man already? Could it be that you've got a faulty set of attitudes, beliefs and/or expectations about the opposite sex?

Here's the deal: if you've got negative "stuff" under the surface that isn't supportive of the type of relationship you really want to have, you will not only be wasting your time, but, even worse, you'll be creating more negative feelings about men...and the cycle continues.

If you're ready to explore what might be in your way - and it is in the way, even if you don't know it - then this session will give you some concrete tools to help you get on the fast track to a scrumptious connection with a man you want.
In this one hour session, we’ll:

* Share the issues you face with men;
* Uncover any unhelpful attitudes, beliefs and/or expectations about men that you have;
* Talk about what works with men (generally speaking);
* Develop an approach to relating with men that will help you create the kind of relationship you deeply want with a man who is the right fit for you.

There are great men everywhere. You just have to be ready to see them.

Karen Jones has been helping women have the relationships of their dreams for 20 years. After working for a relationship training company in California, she founded The Heart Matters in 1997. In 2007, she published Men are Great - How to Build a Relationship That Brings out the Best in Both of You. Through private and group coaching, live and phone-based seminars, ecourses and ebooks, hundreds of women - single, dating seriously, and married - have found the help they've needed to experience satisfying romantic relationships with men. To sign up for her free monthly newsletter, Ask the Coach, please go to www.theheartmatters.com. And if you'd like to get a free chapter of Men are Great, please go to www.MenareGreat.com.

Session Three: Flirting 101 - How to Charm Your Way to Love and Relationship

We all know her - the woman that walks into a room, breezes across the dance floor, effortlessly attracting everyone's attention. She may not even be the prettiest or the smartest woman in the crowd. What's her secret? She's an excellent flirt with the right attitude and the ability to make others feel good. In this workshop, you will learn:
* What flirting is, exactly
* How to have the right attitude - The Flirting Attitude
* 5 skills of an effective flirt
* How to say 'yes' and 'no' gracefully, leaving the other person, and you, feeling good

Robyn Vogel is a psychotherapist and an expert at flirting! She loves love and has been helping women fall in love with themselves and others for the past 19 years! The butterflies in the stomach at first attraction, the intense joy of mutual expression and the depth of human emotion - all fuel her passion to assist others in creating the relationships they desire. In 2009, Robyn launched a new phase of her Boston-based psychotherapy practice, Flirting With Heart. She is successful at helping others build confidence, become naturally flirtatious and attract the right person. More information can be found at www.RobynVogel.com.

Session Four: How To Dress For a Date Without Ransacking Your Closet

Have you ever felt like having a date, in theory, sounds good but when it actually comes to getting dressed for one you panic? Before you call the whole thing off, let’s look at a few “how-to’s” to make the anticipation and planning fun rather than anxiety-producing. We’ll look at:

* 3 steps that take an outfit from so-so to wow!
* How to dress to express (as well as impress).
* How to overcome the #1 mistake women make when they shop for clothes.

After this session you will never look at your personal style the same way again!

Over the past 22 years, Ginger Burr, President of Total Image Consultants, believing that your image is about representing the best of you (not making designers happy), has built a remarkable career as an expert personal image consultant working with women from all walks of life. Whether it’s the “dynasty” shoulder pad era, the never-ending confusion of business casual, or the low-rise pant controversy, she has helped women navigate through (and sometimes completely ignore!) the styles of the season and feel good about how they look. A notable speaker and leader in the field of fashion and style, Ginger's adroit understanding of beauty trends and fashion has been celebrated by Fox TV News, The Boston Globe, Women’s Health magazine, and cnn.com. In addition, Ginger recently launched her wardrobe home study program “Who Taught You How to Dress?” This innovative program allows women to overcome internal obstacles and learn the practical (as well as soft) skills they need to create a wardrobe they love--all in the comfort of their own home! www.totalimageconsultants.com


Our intention is to have this workshop give you vitally-important, clear to understand, and simple to follow advice on the best way to go about being your best self, and in the process, attract the best man for you.

The fee for this power-packed afternoon (Saturday, January 9th from 1p until 5p in North Andover, MA), which could catapult you into dating success like you've never experienced, is only $95.

You will get all the information you need once you sign up.

Oh, and please make sure your single friends know about this...they'll thank you for it!

Wishing you great love in your life,

Dale Koppel
Ginger Burr
Karen Jones
Robyn Vogel

P.S. This is one afternoon that is sure to inspire you and help you end up in the right relationship for you...don't wait one more second - sign up now!

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Man

New Teleseminar This Thursday Night!

Imagine for a moment that it's 6 months from today. You have met the love of your life and are beginning to create your ideal relationship together.

If meeting your mate and creating more love in your life is your personal goal, this Meetup is for you!

Manifesting Your Mate will reveal the most effective strategies for drawing love and relationship to you. Learn simple, yet powerful, techniques that are the secret to manifesting in your life's dreams.

You will learn how in this one-hour teleseminar designed with you in mind.

My goal is to support others in creating more love in their lives, thus creating more love in the world. Join me for this life-changing seminar.

Warmly,
Robyn


Important Details:

Thursday, Dec 17th from 7-8 pm; $25

To register, email me:
FlirtingExpert@gmail.com

Phone # provided upon registration.


Important Links:

Join my Meetup group:
Contact me directly:
Robyn Vogel, MA, LMHC FlirtingExpert@gmail.com or 508-380-9254

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Thursday, November 26, 2009

Gratitude With Heart

Greetings on Thanksgiving Day!

I woke up this morning and in my meditation felt an incredible gratitude for all the connections I have in my life right now. I felt especially grateful for being able to connect to a higher place in my meditation. Then I realized that writing to you today was important. To remind you that if you are not with that someone special - life partner or soul mate - right now....that it's important to be grateful for what you DO have in your life (and who.)

Like attracts like....so when you feel gratitude for the love you have in your life today, love will come your way more easily.

So…

Remember to LOVE YOURSELF and that it’s OK not to be sharing this day with your life partner. Be grateful and thankful for all that IS in your life even if you're not feeling it. "Fake it til you make it" - practice expressing gratitude and guess what? Soon, you'll actually feel it!

If you continuing doing the things you LOVE to do in your life, with people that make you feel GOOD when you're around them, you'll create a beautiful, loving life on your own that will welcome in a life partner when s/he shows up!

Remember that staying connected with your heart is most important. It allows others to truly see you and know who you are; and know that their attraction is true (based on an authentic you and not someone who you are 'not'.)

I am sending you MUCH LOVE and LIGHT today! I look forward to hearing from you, seeing you, playing and learning and loving together!

LOVE YOURSELF!!! BE GRATEFUL FOR YOU! YOU ARE AN AMAZING, UNIQUE, BEAUTIFUL PERSON -- LET OTHERS SEE JUST HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE!

If you have a success story, please post it on the Bulletin Board so that we can ALL share in your SUCCESS and LOVE!

Warmly,
Robyn


Thursday, November 19, 2009

The 3 Myths of Flirting

Need help attracting an AMAZING relationship with the right person without having to be someone you are not? You've come to the right place!

I believe that ANYONE can be successful at flirting and dating. I get emails from participants who have taken my workshops and found that they feel more confident afterward. They more easily attract people to them and are beginning to enjoy dating! They've taken what they've learned and found great people and are growing meaningful relationships.

This newsletter is going to reveal some of the secrets I've learned about how to FLIRT EFFECTIVELY AND NATURALLY and improve not only the number of dates you have ahead of you...but also the quality, strength, and the depth of the connections; being yourself and leading with your heart in order to create a long-lasting relationship.

THE 3 MYTHS OF FLIRTING

1. Follow the rules in a book and you will succeed.

Truth: How can you follow someone else's rules and expect to succeed. Yes, smiling is important (that's a good rule to follow) but take not about how you feel when someone tells you what to do. Most of us react to that negatively. And trying to be someone else will never get you into a relationship that is lasting. After pretending for a while...the show will be over before it has actually begun.

What to do: Make a list of all the positive ways you interact with others; it doesn't matter if the list is long or short but try to put at least 3 things down on paper. Practice these top 3 ways that are authentically YOU. Know that you are good at these, that you are capable and that when you are yourself, people will enjoy you for who YOU are! Don't you want to be with someone who is attracted to who you are?

2. If you obsess over getting married and having babies, you will!

Truth: Gong! When you meet someone if it's laden with projections into the future, s/he will feel the pressure. This is the best way to shorten the length of even the first date!

What to do: Relax! Enjoy yourself. Stay open to the connection and the unique gifts it has to offer you. From there, who knows what will happen!

3. Flirting = sex.

Truth: Nope! Flirting is communicating interest in getting to know someone better. End of sentence.

What to do: Flirt with confidence that you are in control of your 'yes' -- and 'no' -- regarding how far to take the meeting or date.

Thanks and I look forward to hearing YOUR SUCCESS stories, too!


Flirtatiously Yours,
Robyn


Friday, October 16, 2009

Express Your Inner Beauty Workshop



Hi Flirtatious Friends!!

I am so excited to announce a new workshop I'm hosting with my fashionista friend, Ginger Burr of Total Image Consultants!!! It is going to be fantastic!

Here are the details for Express Your Inner Beauty:

Date: October 24, Saturday at 1:30pm
Location: 40 Crescent Street in Waltham
Price: $50
Register: 508-380-9254
  • Do you feel stuck in a fashion rut, out of date, frumpy, or just plain bored with how you look?
  • Or, maybe you just feel uninspired and want to add that little touch of pizazz to an outfit?
  • Do you feel beautiful, sexy, elegant and sassy on the inside but unsure, timid, or unexciting on the outside?
  • Are you good at dressing yourself up but want extra tips on how to make yourself look even better when you go out to meet people?
  • Do you want to look your absolute best expression of yourself on your first date?
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IF YOU ANSWERED YES TO ANY OF THOSE QUESTIONS, THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR YOU!!!
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Everyone can agree that whether you are going on a date, a job interview or just meeting friends for dinner, you want to feel great about how you look. And when you do it is genuinely captivating!

In this seminar, Ginger will offer you guidance in understanding how to create a look that makes you look and feel fabulous. Be sure to bring an outfit or two with you that you have questions about. Together (and very gently) we will explore how to rework the clothes you bring to create terrific outfits!!

You will learn:

* How to use color, style, design, accents, details, patterns, and fabrics as they relate to your personal uniqueness.

* To feel confident when choosing clothes that reflect your inner beauty/radiance/charisma, i.e., are patterns or solids best, which colors make you sparkle, what about details such as pockets, buttons, ruffles, necklines, shoes…the list is endless.

* How to interpret sexy, elegant, sophisticated, sporty…is it the same for everyone?

* What is age appropriate to wear these days!

* To explore putting the finishing touches on an outfit to express your personality with pizazz.

This is a great opportunity to work with Ginger who has been leading Total Image workshops for 20 years! It is a special opportunity for us to have her do a workshop for us. Now is the time to entice your personality out of hiding and learn to create an original wardrobe that you love. When you feel good about how you look, you radiate confidence, beauty and warmth, and others can’t help but notice!!!

This workshop is limited to 30 people. So, please sign up ASAP so that you have saved a space for yourself. The last one Ginger did for us filled up quickly. You can call me at 508-380-9254 or sign up at my Meetup group Flirting Tips for Women. Can't wait to see you there!

And sorry, my flirtatious male friends, this is just for us girls! But stay posted, more events to follow!

Until next time, remember to smile, make eye contact and say "Hi!" to that one who catches your eye!

Flirtatiously yours,
Robyn

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Welcome To Flirting With Heart

Flirting And Dating Tips

If you want to learn how to attract your ideal someone, then you're going to love this. Here's what this is all about: My name is Robyn Vogel, and I just finished putting together a free e-letter that will help you feel more confident in social situations.

Here's a small sample of what you'll learn:
  • How to instantly feel more confident in any social situation.
  • Become naturally flirtatious...the kind of person that people naturally gravitate towards
  • Create an aura that invites people to want to approach you
  • Feel confident when smiling and flirting with others
  • Effortlessly create fun and easy connections with people
  • Create conversations that flow easily and naturally
  • Accept or decline advances in a way that leaves other people feeling good about themselves and about you.

Just enter your email in the box below to get your hands on this free report, and you'll be on your way to joyful, loving, fun, connected, and confident dating experiences. It all begins with a fabulous first impression!

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