Do You Know How to Attract the Love You Desire?

We all want more love in our life...yet how do we go about attracting the right kind of love that is going to fulfill our greatest desires and fantasies? Impossible? Not at all. I know how to do it and I will coach you to do the same.

In case you missed the call, or want to download it and replay, I'm sharing the recording of an introductory class I offered in September. In this call, we talked about:

- How your beliefs may be keeping you single

- How important it is to know what your needs are and get them met (yes!!)

- Your vision of what you want in your life and how you can actualize it

- How YOU can remove those obstacles and start on your path RIGHT AWAY!

In case you missed it, click here: Intro to Attract The Love You Desire, enter in the information and 669450 for the code. Then play or download the file and enjoy! You are one step closer to attracting the love you desire!

Flirtatiously yours,
Robyn

The Singles Map

In case you were looking to flirt...

The Four Keys to Flirting with Heart

‘Flirting with heart’ is an expression to describe the conscious way of meeting others, expressing attraction and begin dating! There are no rules to follow and no specific expectations to meet....except one: be in your heart and your light will shine. This light - self-confidence - is what men call SEXY!

Conscious flirting and dating, leading with your heart (balanced with your astute mind) is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! Flirting with heart yields results...because as we learn to connect from our heart, we learn what it truly means to be intimate (not sexual) and it is from this space that deep and lasting connections are made.

The 4 Keys to Flirting With Heart:

1. FEEL YOUR VULNERABILITY AND DO IT ANYWAY:
You know what they say - F.E.A.R. = False Evidence Appearing Real. I know you're scared to put yourself out there. Acknowledge your feelings of fear and anxiety. Write them down on paper, tell them to a friend, send them to me in an email. It's okay to be scared. Scared doesn't mean stop. Scared means be gentle and loving with yourself. Open your heart and send yourself compassion. Then move forward anyway. There's no reason to hide; we're all human and guess what? We all get scared.

2. BE PRESENT:
Practice some form of presence practice. Do yoga, meditate, sit and watch your thoughts for a while. Breathe and notice your in breath and your out breath. Have a conversation with a friend and truly listen. Most often people are thinking and listening at the same time! Practice really listening. We all like to be heard and most of us have a deep need to be understood. So when you approach that beautiful man out there on the dance floor, ask him an open-ended question and then listen. You might learn something extremely valuable in that moment and you won't want to miss it! When we are truly PRESENT in the moment, we are OPEN to meeting the love of our life because we are paying attention.

3. STAY OPEN:
Let go of the way you think your partner is going to show up. Let go of what you think he'll look like. Stay open. Try this: stand in a room full of people and look around. Say this to yourself (or aloud!), "Every single man in this room is a potential partner for me." Breathe that idea in. It's true. We can't predict the future so none of us really know what our life partners or soul mates are going to look like. Stay open to the possibilities, it'll keep your heart open.

4. AUTHENTICITY:
Being real means telling the truth. When you're scared, say so; when you want something, acknowledge it; when you know what your needs are, express them. There's nothing more attractive than a woman who knows her unique self and feels good about it. Let your guard down and get out of your own way. In relationship, true selves and personalities are eventually revealed and observed by our partner, so it’s more efficient to be genuine from day one. By expressing our true selves, we attract someone perfect for us!

Flirting with heart allows you to be yourself, appreciate your gifts and let others appreciate them as well. Helen Keller said something very profound, "Life is a daring adventure or nothing." Dare to be your best self and have the most deeply satisfying and blissful relationship. You deserve it, that's for sure!

How to Talk with Men, with Communication Expert, Karen Baker Blum

JOIN US FOR THIS SHOCKINGLY HONEST AND OUTRAGEOUS WEEKEND SEMINAR!

April 28, 2010 at 7:30PM AT W 83 Street, New York, NY 10024

You are not going to want to miss this!!!!

How to Talk to Men gives you 14 communication tools to build long-lasting connections with the men in your life. You can learn to win the heart of your potential mate and earn the trust of men in your life.

This workshop will open your eyes to the protective nature of men, showing you how to win that warrior over to your side. You will have the opportunity to bond with other curious women who are committed to unraveling the knots that can occur between the sexes. Participants learn vital skills required to find happiness in relationship.

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~Discover how to get your way by giving in
~Develop an environment of unconditional love
~Focus your conversation on events rather than interpretations
~Forge a new basis for cooperation
~Improve your feelings of self-esteem
~Learn how to harness the power of men

A vital part of building healthy collaborations with men is our ability, as women, to relax,
nurture our femininity and forge uplifting, powerful and supportive alliances with other women.

To register, visit:Flirting with Heart for Single Women in NY Meetup Group.

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TESTIMONIALS:
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“I have read “The Power of Now”, and taken countless seminars, but nothing had
as profound an impact as this workshop. In the role-play, I got a totally accurate
read on what I was doing in my communication that didn’t work. It was like a
huge light bulb went off. I went from my head to my heart.” -Barbara Howe,
Photographer

“The "How To Talk To Men" seminar taught me how to know and say what I
want. I now have the "tools" to produce the best in any team situation. Simply
asking for help has been monumental for me!”

Single Women in NYC!

Living, Loving & Flirting With Heart
with Robyn Vogel, Lois Barth & Lisa Steadman

When: Fri, May 7, 2010; 7:30-9:30 pm

Cost: $35

Location: TBA (Manhattan)

To Register click here: www.robynvogel.com/MakeaPayment.en.html

Imagine for a moment that it's six months from today, and you've met the most wonderful man in the whole world. You have finally met your match, your life partner, your soul mate. When your eyes meet there's a "yes!" that tells you this is the one you've been waiting for. You feel a deep connection, a strong attraction, and are ready to open your heart.

Is this what you want to create in your life? Is this what you have been waiting for?

If so, you've come to the right place!

This experiential workshop, offered by 3 leading experts in the field of relationship and dating, will send you home with the power tools you need to manifest the relationship of your dreams.

This is an event you do not want to miss!

Join other women, like you, who intend to have the best year of their lives in 2010.

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Session I - Flirting 101 - How to Charm Your Way to Love and Relationship with Robyn Vogel

We all know her - the woman that walks into a room, breezes across the dance floor, effortlessly attracting everyone's attention. She may not even be the prettiest or the smartest woman in the crowd. What's her secret? She's an excellent flirt with the right attitude and the ability to make others feel good. This part of the workshop, you teach you:

1. What flirting is (and isn't!)
2. How to have the right attitude - The Flirting Attitude
3. 3 most effective ways to flirt your way to connection


Robyn Vogel, MA, LMHC is a psychotherapist and an expert at flirting! She loves love and has been helping women fall in love with themselves and others for the past 19 years! The butterflies in the stomach at first attraction, the intense joy of mutual expression and the depth of human emotion - all fuel her passion to assist others in creating the relationships they desire. In 2009, Robyn launched a new phase of her Boston-based psychotherapy and relationship coaching practice, Flirting With Heart. She is successful at helping others build confidence, become naturally flirtatious and attract the right person to them. More information can be found at www.RobynVogel.com.

To Register click here: www.robynvogel.com/MakeaPayment.en.html

"I love Robyn Vogel. She is smart, compassionate, grounded and intuitive. If you are looking for support that gently encourages you to make progress without shame, Robyn is your woman. Robyn is one of the most skilled and respectful facilitators I have ever worked with. If you are willing to give yourself the gift of empowerment and want to call more self-love into your life, check out Robyn!" -- LT; Lexington, MA




Session II - Become a Successful, Smart, Single Woman: Overcome the 3 most common mistakes you can make! with Lois Barth

In romance as in life, it's not what you know you don't know that stops you, it's what you don't know that you don't know that does! In this entertaining and upbeat interactive program, we will explore the 3 most important power principles that will shift you to being a successful, smart and savvy single.

You will learn the following:
1. The mistake and mystique of "chemistry." How to decipher between chaos vs. connection
2. How clarifying your requirements, needs and wants are in a relationship versus a partnership, and how that makes all the difference.
3. Creating a luscious life, as a path for luscious life partnership.

Lois Barth is an empowerment and relationship coach and speaker. She speaks to individuals and groups in NYC and around the country on how to live powerfully and playfully, both personally and professionally. The very same process she went through intuitively to meet her life partner paralleled the process she later got trained in as a certified relationship coach, which has supported countless women as well as herself, to move from loony lessons in love to luscious life partnerships. She was the life coach, creator, and source expert for two makeover campaigns for SELF and FITNESS magazine as well as being a source expert for ALL YOU Magazine, MSN.com, WomansDay.com, and many relationship sites. She heads up the relationship department for Female Think, an on-line learning community for women. www.lusciouslivingwithlois.com

To Register click here: www.robynvogel.com/MakeaPayment.en.html

"I had a tall order for my ideal partnership--one that included creativity, intellectual stimulation, attraction and financial security. After years of settling, I wasn't sure if I'd be able to find a guy who wanted the same things. Within two months of working with Lois, I "man-ifested" a hot, hot honey who is better than what I ever dreamed up on my own. I'm now blissfully engaged at age 36."

- T.E., media company owner

Session III - If He's Not the One, Who Is? with Lisa Steadman

If you knew Mr. Right was out there, and he was doing everything possible to meet you, wouldn't you do everything possible to meet him FASTER? If one of your New Year's Resolutions was to find love (or at least go on a date this year!), then you must first ask yourself these three important questions:

1. What or who from your past is keeping you from calling in the love you deserve?
2. Deep down, do you BELIEVE you deserve the kind of juicy, blissful love you desire?
3. Do you know the difference between dating disappointment and heartbreak?

With Lisa's expert guidance, you'll experience her 3 step process that will help you release the past and step into empowered action.

Lisa Steadman is an internationally acclaimed relationship journalist, relationship coach, best-selling author, sought-after speaker, and CEO of Woohoo, Inc. Women around the world have been able to heal the pain of past relationships and step into their brilliant futures with guidance from Lisa’s books, as well as the information she shares through her blog, YouTube Channel, newsletters, social media, and her many TV and radio appearances, which include The Today Show, The Tyra Banks Show, Playboy Radio, and New Zealand’s Good Morning. She has also contributed relationship advice to eHarmony.com, Yahoo!Dating.com, iVillage.com, Tango.com, the Huffington Post, and missmatchmaker.net.

"Working with Lisa, I have overcome numerous obstacles including the trap of thinking my ex was the only person who would ever want me, and more importantly, how NOT loving myself was sabotaging my success. I am now loving my single life – and attracting men like crazy! I didn’t EVER think that would be possible. With Lisa’s guidance, I have a new vision for my life and my future looks brighter then ever!”
- Leigha

To Register click here: www.robynvogel.com/MakeaPayment.en.html

What Makes An Excellent Flirt?

What makes an excellent flirt? What do you think of when you imagine yourself in a situation where you are getting ready to flirt with someone? What do you notice inside yourself in those moments? What do you feel self-confident about and where do you feel you need help?

Here are some things to think about:

• Flirting is a form communication that verbally and non-verbally expresses your interest in 'beautiful person' in front of you. Excellent flirting requires excellent communication skills. Words are a flirtatious woman's best friend. Becoming aware of the language you use to express yourself may be the first place to start. Communicating directly and honestly as well as, using ambiguity to offer your wit and sense of humor is a skill you can learn. Asking open-ended questions (not yes/no), being aware of non-verbal cues (your own and the ones you are receiving) and listening with all of your senses (not just your ears) are at the heart of good flirting.
• A great flirt is playful and adventurous; open to keeping things light and whimsical. Even if your flirting has an end in mind (a date, a relationship, marriage), in the moment it's important to....stay in the moment and enjoy yourself. Being charming is a skill -- the more you play and laugh at yourself and with others, the easier you make it on the person you are courting with your attention.
• Be a good connector. Great flirts are effective at making connections with others. Take a deep breath, make eye contact, smile and say 'hello'! Somehow New Englanders in the freezing cold of winter have taken to looking down and not smiling. Let's spread some joy by simply saying hello with a smile!
• A good flirt makes others around them feel good about themselves. And that in turn, cycles around to feeling good about ourselves! Flatter, compliment, appreciate others as much as you can. A friend of mine told me a story once of how he set up a hot chocolate and muffin stand in front of his home once/week for the garbage collectors to enjoy on the job. To me, this is one of the most generous acts! We all have a lot more gratitude to share with ourselves and others. A good flirt is good at flattering others.
• And last, but not least, a good flirt notices the little things. She pays attention to the details, remembers important things that were said and is able to gracefully bring them around again. Guess what? The object of your desire feels heard and met; and therefore, appreciative!

Tapping Into Relationship

This workshop will prepare you with the power tools to identify what is in the way of you being in relationship and start your journey towards removing those obstacles immediately.

Come prepared to explore your inner terrain in a safe and loving environment. You may leave having gained more clarity and insight into your relationship journey and a plan to take the next steps on your individual path.

This workshop will be very individualized and is therefore, limited to 12 people only.

You only need to bring the following:

• An open heart and mind
  
• Your journal and a pen
  
• A list of 5 things you need from a partner
• $20 in cash to pay at the door (RSVP required - email FlirtingExpert@gmail.com)
  

This event will be held in Lexington from 3-5 pm. The office is accessible from route 2 and route 128. There's also a bus from Alewife (Independence Avenue stop on Mass Avenue.) There is ample parking.

Flirtatiously Yours,
Robyn